It took three months to live in my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law! A husband s solution to the Internet praises: There is no evil mother-in-law, only an incompetent husband

Is the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law difficult, or is it the husband's inaction?

The person who turns on the "subtle relationship" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the husband/son. The battle between two women is that most men choose to escape and hide away, but there is a saying like this on the Internet: "There is no problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who cannot solve it, only husband who does not want to jump out and solve it!" A famous netizen posted on Dcard, telling his personal experience, and he is the husband who plays the role of "stand out".

After marriage, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lived together for three months and immediately stopped moving: Move! He first posted a message saying that although his father and mother are more traditional, they are not wrong with their relationship with their wife (who was still girlfriend) before marriage, and they also have a common understanding with their wife that they live in the house before their children go to the garden. However, less than three months after the marriage, there were many life frictions between my mother and her wife. The wife kept not saying it because she was afraid that she would worry. She would occasionally complain, and her mother would sneer at him, and her wife would not do housework after get off work.

Seeing that the two people became more and more aggravated, the original PO also decided to "move". He thought that since his life was different, he and his wife had no plans to have children at this stage. I went to see the house that week. I didn’t buy a car at first, so the two of them paid the house’s final payment.

When the mother learned that he was going to move out, she said to her mother indifferently, "I am your son, she is her father's baby daughter. There is no reason to change her life habits after getting married. After I move out, no matter how busy I am, I will definitely go back to eat every week."

After moving out, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has improved greatly. The original PO: My husband really shouldn't wear it to death! Since moving, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has improved greatly and has returned to its original state before marriage. Because of this contrast, the original PO said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has really not been difficult to improve. I don’t understand why many husbands have to be beaten to death. I think “It’s okay for my wife to bear it for a while.” He believes that since they are all married, his wife’s feelings must be placed first. He tried to think: Will men be willing to let their girlfriends suffer from grievances when they are dating? So why do you have to let your wife be patient after getting married? Even if you have no money, you will move out even if you rent a house, and that's not a reason!

Netizens praised: Super cool teammates, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be harmonious, and husbands really take the key points. Of course, many netizens left messages and praised them, saying that this is really a teammate. If there are many boys like the original PO, many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems should not happen. Some people even found out that they had read many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's problems on the board, but in fact, it was all because boys were incompetent, lazy, and mothers could not get rid of the relationship.

One side is the one who gave birth to you and raised your mother, and the other side is the life companion of his wife. Some people hope that they can do both, but it is often unlikely. In the above story, the mother of the original PO also had some rebellion, but in addition to the original PO's position, she also promised her mother that she would go home to eat. In addition, she also expressed her hope that her family would also think about her wife. This way of communication will not make her mother feel that her husband was being taken away, but she can also make her feel that her husband's heart is thinking about her. It is really wise!

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