This Sunday is the annual Mother's Day (5/12), a big day to thank my mother Xinya for gathering with her family. Many women have experienced fetal care, childbirth, and changed body shape after becoming a mother... Only then did they realize tha...
This Sunday is the annual Mother's Day (5/12), a big day to thank my mother Xinya for gathering with her family. Many women have experienced fetal care, childbirth, and changed body shape after becoming a mother... Only then did they realize that their mother is so old and hard-working. It turns out that the mother’s career is not easy! In response to this, Yuanqi.com asked his mothers for comments on his face fans’ page on the eve of his mother’s festival, “If you can choose again, will you be willing to become a mother again?”, which aroused the response from the mothers and expressed their own ideas.
Mom is really big! After becoming a mother, in order to nurture and take care of the family, they often lose a lot of their time and relationships with others. The United States once conducted a study that surveyed more than 1,300 mothers and found that 80% of them believed they did not have enough friends and 58% felt lonely. Many people develop a depressed tendency after becoming parents. Although friends may not be able to stop or resolve unhappy life, losing friends will definitely add to the depressed situation.
{9 99}Yuanqi.com asked mothers for their opinions on their face fans page, "If you can choose again, would you rather become a mother again?" There are many mothers who come to leave comments on their own ideas, indicating whether they want to become a mother again.
Some mothers said that if they can choose again, they are willing to become mothers again. "Yes! The child is my baby & everything", "Although I sacrificed myself and my work, the children are all very cute and thoughtful, and I don't regret it!", "Yes, but my husband has to choose the right person", "Yes, as long as I can re-select that sperm provider", "If I can be willing to have a strong child, I will be willing", "I am very willing, because I have it." 3 children who are sensible and filial", "I will definitely! I want to have a baby soon", "I am willing, and I only want to be my son's mother", "If I can buy sperm as a mother, I am willing", "I am willing to give birth to my kid again, but my husband will have to re-choose", "I want to be a mother again, and it is better to be unmarried."
Another part of the mothers said that if they can choose again, they are unwilling to become mothers again. "No, because raising a daughter is too tiring, and pregnancy is even more tiring", "No, I'm not willing! A child's worries", "I'll be single forever if I'm beaten to death!", "I can't take care of myself, and I can't be responsible for others", "I don't want to be a mother at all! I can't teach the child well", "I don't want to be a child! I don't want to be a child or a husband", "Forget it! It's better for me to be alone!", "I don't want to be a man because I'm not a good mother", "No! My children and I have made an agreement that when we get together again, we have to be brothers and sisters because it's too hard to be a mother."
There are also mothers who express other opinions. "Don't be too tired. Life is the most important thing", "It's so hard to be a mother again, but not a wife." "I have seen the "if" life before I reincarnate. I'm happy to do it and be willing to accept it, and there are always things to be desirable!", "In this era, I should ask: child, do you want to be born again?", "In my era when women do not have physical autonomy, I still have no choice."
Mom is one of the most challenging and beautiful roles in life. Being a mother is a major life decision and requires careful consideration. Before entering this new stage of life, it is recommended that you think about six things first, and then welcome the arrival of a new life after you are ready, so that you will not feel that you will regret it after becoming a mother.
1. Requires time and energy investment: Nursing requires a lot of time and energy investment. Are you ready to sacrifice your time and interest and devote yourself to taking care of your children?
2. Planning financial preparation: The education will bring additional financial burdens, including medical expenses, educational expenses, daily expenses, etc. Do you have a stable financial plan to pay for these expenses?
3. Whether there is foreign aid to help: it is very important to have a support system around you, whether it is family, friends or community resources. Do you have reliable people who can help you with challenges and pressures?
4. Please think about a good career plan: As a mother, your life may change, including your career and personal goals. Have you considered these changes and prepared what you should do?
5. Emotional preparation: Education is a journey full of emotional fluctuations, including joy, challenges, anxiety and love. Are you ready to face these emotional ups and downs?
6. Can you take good care of yourself: After becoming a mother, you are prone to ignore your needs. But taking good care of yourself is the key to becoming a healthy and happy mother. Do you have plans to take good care of yourself while caring for your children?
The above questions may help you and be better prepared to meet the challenges and joys of becoming a mother. "If you can choose again, will you be willing to become a mother again?", tell Yuanqi.com what you think.
Thank you for your hard work in the whole world! Yuanqi.com wishes mothers a happy mother's holiday. While taking good care of their children and families, don't forget to take good care of themselves. Occasionally reward yourself and become the happy self who was young!
