Finland and Denmark took the lead in the "Happy World Report" released in March this year, and Finland has won the seventh consecutive championship. CNBC Make It couldn't help but be curious. After visiting psychologists and profession...
Finland and Denmark took the lead in the "Happy World Report" released in March this year, and Finland has won the seventh consecutive championship. CNBC Make It couldn't help but be curious. After visiting psychologists and professional experts from both countries, they found that the happiest people often say these three sentences:
The first sentence: "The things you stay behind will always appear in front of you." {999 9}Life cannot be smooth all the way, and you will always face difficulties and obstacles. Only by facing them directly can you avoid the same difficulties and obstacles. Finnish people often say, "The things you stay behind will always be found in front of you." Anni Hallila, a member of Framery, a Finnish manufacturing plant and director of the Department of Culture, said that this sentence means that if you don't deal with any problems, the problem will only become bigger in the end.
For example, if a friend makes a joke with you that is not very good and does not immediately respond to it, the other party will think that since you have nothing to say, it is OK to start a joke that is equally unsavory next time. Hallila said, "If you put the problem behind it, the same problem will appear before you. Therefore, the only way to deal with it is to make the problem actually deal with it."
Sentence 2: Pyt med det (Denmark: It doesn't matter/not important; don't worry)People's 2022 public noticed that more than 25% of Americans are worried that their mood is out of control, and the pressure is too high to harm mental health and production capacity. Meik Wiking, executive director of the Happy Research Institute, said that the Danes used the three words Pyt med det z to easily resolve this American anxiety.
Wei Jing said that Pyt means "don't care", which means that you must fully accept reality, and then let go of your anxiety, "In the storm of life, relax your voice and make sure that when things seem to be uneven, it will always be fine."
The third sentence: "Some people are happy, and everyone has summer."Seeing others happy on social media, ordinary people are prone to having a more or even jealous mentality. Frank Martela, a Finnish psychologist, said that everyone understands that everyone will have bad days. Even if they are in difficult times, it is unnecessary, let alone reasonable, so compare with others.
He said that the Finnish people knew that no matter how long the winter was, one thing was absolutely reliable: summer would come early, and everyone would have a share.
Responsible editor: Gu Zihuan
